I am booked on a trip with family in 35 days, 1 of the members does not want anything to do with planning. I don't think that he can even tell you where he is going. This his is life style. Myself I am with everyone else. Do your homework, understand what could be, and then leave everything else up to fate. But if we are standing by the evaluator saying. Where is....., I can jump up and say...... I can help...., or better yet, if we are standing on the dock looking at each other and don't know what to do, I can give some suggestions.
Doing your homework is as fun as the vacation.