Oh Sterling try to hang on a bit longer. It'll be worth it I promise. My husband did'nt know a thing. I hacked into his ff account , my bf husband impersonated him over the phone to make flight reservations. I started the process in Janurary and we did'nt cruise until April. His b-day was in May and I wanted to do it early. He knew nothing until he came home from work and found his sister sitting here. She came down to take care of the children for us. It was hard to keep it from him but also alot of fun. I'd do it again in a heartbeat. Good luck to you!!!!!!!