thoth hit the nail on the head. i am not young, i am slightly overweight, so i guess i shouldn't be allowed to cruise according to the people who don't want to cruise unless only attractive people are on board. i went on the soap opera cruise by myself. i had no desire to meet anybody, i was on the cruise strictly to meet and mingle with the stars for 4 days. i wouldn't have met anybody because most people first go my appearances.