I think you are taking things out of context here.
When I said "better than what I got" never did I say I thought I got what I deserved. In fact I very vociferously said exactly the opposite.
So, if the person paying for a suite on Mariner got the kind of service I got, I would say he is really getting ripped off because there are definitely ships where you can get much better service for that kind of money. And that's simple logic.
There is nothing anti-egalitarian in my statements, just logic.