Originally Posted by You
Sometimes cleavage is there whether you want it or not. Its just a part of your body. Some happen to be bigger...this does not give men invitation to gawk.....sometimes I wish they wouldnt even notice. So anyway, wear what you think looks nice.
True, but one need not wear (1) bras designed to enhance cleavage or (2) dresses or tops designed to showcase it. Females (use of the term "ladies" in this context would be dubious) who do either or both are inviting that sort of attention. Buxom women do best to wear a dress with a neckline somewhere above the top of the bust with material that drapes down from the bustline.