Not sure if you're still looking for a cabin mate.
I'm also from New York...New York City. Looking for a cabin mate for a cruise this winter. Considering Norwegian Pearl or Dawn in February 2009, but open to other suggestions.
I'm a GWM...not looking for romance...just somebody to share a cabin, dine with, save some $$$, etc. 56 y.o. Low-key, non-smoker, glass of wine with dinner. I enjoy life aboard the ship, ports, going ashore, the dining, etc.