It is a shame that you feel that is what we are doing.
It's not gossip because no one is being hurt here at all. Just pure concern.
I think that is what you may not understand, because of the line of work you were/are in. You come into contact with dishonest people who just don't really care about others lives or they would not be in court.
It is human nature to look at a fire or an accident. That is a given.
Gossip...well that is for people who are insecure and need a lift by making sure that others know of a scandle or an affair . That is not what I have read here at all. It is compassion.
It is still very sad and it is over. We will never know what happened because nothing was found. And if there was a note...it is not news worthy to the Media. Another shame.