My husband's cruising experience was marred by his sister passing away, and he never wants to cruise again. He associates cruising with his missing his sister's funeral. I, on the other hand, have opted to move on, and show our children that we must move on, even when tragedy hits us dead on.
The reason I say "never" is because the experience was horrible and I felt guilty that he missed being there with his family during a time of deep sorrow. He blamed me incessantly, because I practically "forced" him to go on a trip when he didn't want to.