Wow Michelle1959 you have some extreme views on drinking.
I agree I don't like to be around really drunk people. I worry about a recovering alcoholic being tempted on a cruise. So I hope the OP is sucessful in find a cruise that suits her needs.
I'm not a heavy drinker, but I like to have drinks on the ship. I don't get falling down drunk or distrub others. It is possible for someone who is not a recovering alcoholic to drink in moderation and I have no problem with people doing it.