I can't vote for either one. I grew up with "corn meal mush" and I don't like it.
I have always prided myself in the fact that I am not a finicky eater and love to try anything from bugs to brains and love the taste of many foods but I will not eat grits, oatmeal, corn meal mush, most polenta, cream of wheat, Farina and Malt-o-Meal unless I am starving. I haven't hit the starving point yet.
Take care,
Mike