I have a confession to make. Everything I see a reference to "FOD" meetings, it brings up both frustration and sadness. The sadness is about gay men still holding on to old,closeted and unhealthly behaviors that speak to believing we have something shameful to hide about our lives. I personally don't want to meet "friends of Dorothy". I want to meet out and proud gay men who ask for meetings that speak to who we truly are.......can you imagine any other group labeling their meetings in clandestine phrases? I can marry my partner but still have to speak in code? Enough. You may want your meeting listed FOD but I'm asking for a meeting space for GLBT members to meet together on my cruise.