First of all, I'm surprised RCCL gave you any of your money back. I thought that if you "missed the ship....you were out $$".
Second of all, maybe I'm strange (no comments)....but when I book a cruise (or any vacation), I write it in my calendar and I know EXACTLY when I will be leaving home and returning home.
I really don't think the OP should blame this on RCCL. I doubt that any other cruise line would have done any more for him.
1979 NCL Skyward, 1981 NCL Starward, 1984 NCL Starward, 1989 Carnival Tropicale, 1989 NCL Starward, 1992 NCL Norway, 1993 Regency Regent Sea, 1995 NCL Windward, 1997 RCCL Legend, 1998 RCCL Legend, 2002 RCCL Grandeur, 2004 HAL Ryndam, 2004 RCCL Explorer, 2005 RCCL Splendour, 2005 RCCL Serenade, 2006 RCCL Vision, 2007 RCCL Freedom, 2008 RCCL Monarch, 2009 RCCL Mariner
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