My wife and I are in our mid 40's. We have never been on a cruise. We're thinking about going for our 5 year anniversary. The Silver Spirit sounds incredible. We were specifically looking at a June sailing from Venice-Croatia-Athens. The price seems incredible in that includes airfare. For all you expereinced cruise lovers we had a few questions and very much appreciate honest responses. We love fine dining, good wine and top of the line accomodations. However, we are not into the formal type events. I would not want to wear tuxedo, etc... We just want to relax and do things at our own pace in a casual atmosphere. The pool, spa, some excurcions. Is this the right type of crusie for us? We had looked into the Windstar cruises and those seemed appealing for their casual type atmosphere. However, the prices are double when you consider the airfare from Wash DC. Veru much appreciate feedback.