I am also starting to wonder about the people on Oceania being stuffy.
I have heard other people say this - and sure enough on our Oceania Baltic cruise someone walked up to one of our cruise mates and said...
"Nice shirt - too bad you don't have any taste."
A complete stranger. We laughed about it - but the arrogance of anyone saying that to a complete stranger. Reminds me of Obama saying "the police acted stupidly" before he knew anything about the officer involved.
The shirt, just FYI - was a button-down tropical bought at Costco, a place where I am sure most of us buy clothes at least once in a while.
Who in the world would criticize a complete stranger? A really sad and lonely person riddled with insecurity.