thanks rjlexie, im glad to see im not crazy for driving that distance im sure there are many others also. thanks for your response.
rosetattoo it would be equal at 7 nights at either disney or fantasy. Disney will include free dining which we did last year and loved it. The price for the cruise is actually just a bit cheaper (being around the same price this is what is making it so hard for me and i guess the reason why i am towards the cruise at the last minute) also figure we would be driving an extra 5 hours one way to go to Disney plus an extra nights lodging with meals.