I already told them to each their own...I am not going to try and tell them what to do, and hopefully they feel the same way! As for the kids and dinner...ours WANT to eat in the MDR. They enjoy getting to know our servers and being able to try foods. My 16 y.o dd has been telling the kids they are crazy to want to eat at the buffet every night. Not going to sweat it, or ruin our vacation....because this is my 40th Bday party!!!!