I am sorry that you sound like you have been alienated by some posters at another cruise board.
Here at CruiseMates we strongly believe in allowing people to express their opinions openly and honestly, and we always discourage personal attacks. We agree to disagree with politeness and respect here.
Our community for Seabourn is not nearly as large as Cruise Critics, but you are VERY welcome here and if you ever want to discuss something with me privately just send me a private message and I will reply to you.
I am the head honcho here, so your thoughts will not fall on deaf ears here.