oh yeah, part of me is thrilled that our kids have the love of cruising .... BUT .... then we have to deal with the guilt and hurt feelings if we want to take a cruise by ourselves! When we sailed Grandeur for our 10th Anniversary in September .... we told them we were going on a business trip. My little guy had just turned 3 and was watching me pack. He actually questioned why I was packing a bathing suit for a business trip. He said "it looks like you are packing for a cruise!". Yeah, definitely too smart for my good!