Is it just me, but a lot of the posts on formal night dress talk about what men 'have' to wear - I feel sorry for you guys - and believe me I don't say that very often. DJs/Tuxes/Sports Jackets etc
I do not think a man has to wear a tie - I certainly would not want to wear one! The last time I wore a tie was when I was at school and hated every minute of it.
Annie