I am traveling to these ports in October 2011 solo. looking for advise on shore excursion ( with seabourn or a private tour company) for milos, lesvos and patmos specifically? I am not interested in sitting on the beach all day, but would like unique experiences, such as cooking classes, wineary tours ect.. I have been unable to find any tours (not on seabourn) that I can join as a solo traveler. Any suggestions?