I can't let them get me down, I have to half way expect it . . . I mean it isn't exactly something you see all the time. I never have. My wife has two matching bikini sets that match mine, but she is so large up top(DDD), wearing my tops just wouldn't work. She can only wear the halter tops and some of the sets we bought have skimpy little tops that would NEVER work. But hey, we WILL match on TWO of the days, at least!