Wish I could help, but my solo cruise got switched to having a roomshare. I found her on one of my solo cruises chit chatting in the smoking area on board. I had no one to cruise with and she wouldn't have anyone after the one we were on, so we joined forces for an upcoming cruise. After that one, who knows. If you went solo, who knows, you may luck out too. I live close to ports, so travel was not an extra expense, so short cheaper ones fit in my budget.
I guess I'm saying keep your chin up. Other than me being older than you, our profiles would be very close.