Originally Posted by Henry43
Twenty Five years ago a friend approached and asked if he could borrow money for his wedding . He and his fiancee were paying the total cost .
He never gave me back the money and our friendship has declined over the years .
Philosophical question: If they paid the cost with borrowed money, did they really pay the cost (or did you)?
Of course these days prospective brides and grooms think nothing of putting up websites where they ask those who will be coming to the wedding to make an online credit card contribution to help pay for it. Oh, yeah, and don't forget to send a gift as well.
Gives me the creeps.