Well, I guess it boils down to trusting what your gf said...it could have been something as simple as, him writing down her name, putting it somewhere, and just finding it, and, friending her. Dont read to much into it, at this point, really...worry if she books a cruise without you, or, he comes here for a vacation.
Social media makes it easier to do this nowadays, rather then snail mail before......
Trip, with her book & tea!
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