There you are ~20 posts telling you to enjoy yourself, wear a bathing suit & shorts if you want or don't if you don't want (2nd cruise you will). You are probably thinking it would be great if these posters were on your cruise. Eventhough they will not be there, they are all seasoned cruisers and on your cruise there will be many other seasoned cruisers they all think the same. So you will have these people on your cruise, just different names. ENJOY.
We will be looking forward to you posting after the cruise telling us the great time you had.
O F 'er