I certainly don't mind a teatseful tattoo - but I admit I think it is unfortunate that it ever became a "fad" and I do feel sorry for the kids that went overboard with it.
The only consolation they have is that so many of them did it that it is not that unusual to see a person tattooed all over.
But like Katlady - I am now in my late 50s and my wife and I have said "hey, of we both wanted to get a small tattoo to honor one another what harm is there now?" it is not like I am looking to start a career or anything.
But if we did, it would be in a discrete place.
As far as wedding dresses, my DIL wore a wedding dress that showed off her tat. Now, it is beautiful one (prize-winning) - but still...