I am also glad that you were not there that day. I am so sorry for the loss of your friend.
I am also sorry for the families. It is so difficult to try and find another normal in your life, with your loss, but to have so much going on, including the fighting of who will pay, and what can be shown, it must make it much worse for them.
I will never forget, but will not watch the specials that I have seen before, but will spend time in prayer for all who have lost.