just a reminder for txvballgirl and Nicole,
there is a private message option on Cruisemates where you could chat or exchange phone and e-mails to work this out without us snoops seeing !
I'd try to talk one of you into letting me come along except I try to stick with people over 35, or at least those who can act 40. And if you are married, I surely need to meet your husband first to agree on the rules of conduct.
Edwin