It sounds like this staff member may need a course in, saying what he feels he needs to say, in a more tactful way,and I'm not saying what your daughter was wearing was offensive, but, the way you convey a message in the service industry, is all important.
In any situation, anywhere, if I was told, someone would get back to me,and they didn't, it would get to me as well..
Glad to see you are looking into another cruise.
Trip, with her book & tea!
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