My style is definitely relaxed. No dressing up, make shows when i want, go to lectures if I want, play cards, or just relax at a bar. I cruise to see the world so i do like to get to great ports and spend a good amount of time in each port. Sometimes I will go on a port intensive cruise while other times I will have a lot of sea days to reach an out of the way port.
I have found a cruise line that fits my style and am glad to see more cruise lines following the same style.