lol, yes One Queen to another ....must be why I like Cruise Queen so much!
As for my son, he's my little Alex P. Keaton. He has two full suits - one for each formal night and many coordinating shirts/ties. If they took away formal nights he we would be very disappointed. At 6, he is very respectful of the dress code (which he delineates between fancy nights and casual nights). When getting dressed for dinner, (even at home) he will enquire about the dress code for the night and then pick out an appropriate outfit to wear. I once suggested that he pack only one suit, and wear the same thing for both formal nights .... that did not go over well. He likes to dress up - he is the Prince of Oakville, afterall