Moiraine My PM is always open. And I recall recently my PM to you with my rants and thanks for listening and the advice.
Your cousin is way to young to be in that state. That is so sad.
Would your Mom be able to be alone for a few days? Probably not. Is there anyone that can stay with her while you went to see your cousin for a few days?
Sorry to hear about the losses within your family.
Be strong the gang is here for you! PM is open 24/7.