Seeing that the O.P.is approx 3 1/2 years old and still generating so much interest, and in view of the fact that the posts related to actual cruising has seemed to dwindle quite a bit, perhaps it's time for the people who own the marbles and call the shots to set up a sexual advisory board for cruising.
You know a Dr. Ruth type thing --maybe that would inject some life into
the site and attract a host of new members and lurkers. Out of all those , some would no doubt have some legitimate questions regarding cruising for the moderators to ponder and answer.
Like t.v., one has to do what one has to do to get the ratings.
Just a thought!
P.S.---the question remains--did they, or did they not find the X spot??