Well, Gardencat, Jeanne is passing overhead in middle Georgia as I type this - schools are closed here, but no damage yet. My parents made it through this one OK... my sister's house in Orlando was without power last I knew, but it looks like we'll have no problem going to Daytona on Friday and on to FLL on Saturday.
I hope you're able to get your travel plans in order - I know this is stressful for you; hopefully you'll be able to find a 3rd hotel! Getting to the port city a few days earlier is supposed to make things less stressful, not more... hopefully your stress level will fall off significantly once you're on board!
I'll try to make sure that we settle our alternative meeting time and place by tomorrow so you'll know where to find us.