Rhapsody is a beautiful ship - you're daughter will love it (our grandkids were with us last June, ages 7 and 12 and they had a wonderful time). My kids never do the kids adventure program they would rather be with the kids down by the pool. If your daughter decides she doesn't want to do the program you can pay $5.00 at night and they can go up there with the other kids. Sometimes my 12 year old grandson would do this with a friend he met. He didn't want to do the program during the day (would rather do his own thing with new friends), but at night they might have a certain program planned that he and his friend would want to do. The $5.00 is paid in cash, it is not put on your sign card. Hope you have a nice trip.