I am overweight like you and have always enjoyed the massages, the pools, etc. Really only do miss the helicopter rides (refuse to pay double - my fault, but my money also)....they do have some armless chairs in the dining room, all you have to do is ask your waiter (or they may notice and provide one for you without even asking. Minisuite, be aware that there is a big step up into the tub and an even bigger step down out of the tub as the tub in on a platform (believe me - been there and done that!) Since tables are usually bolted to the floor, try to avoid booths in the lounges whenever possible. Also, the Wheelhouse Bar and the Vista lounge have two person couches that are very comfortable for two "fluffy" people.