I do so much reading and research before making a decision that two things happen: 1) I second-guess myself and 2) I forget my motivations for the act in the first place.
Your comments were insightful. Thanks for taking the time to reply to my post. We're going to do the Med. and instead of Rome go to Tuscany and at the end, stop in Barcelona where we'll "really" see the place (we both only speak Spanish, so we'll try to do something more intensive there).
Thanks again - I appreciate it!