Thank you so much for the advice. Formal wear is not something I am always in demand for- you know I have 2 dresses, one bought, one borrowed. The one borrowed is strapless. I just didn't want to walk around looking.........sleezy(for lack of a better word).....around more mature cruisers! I'm only 37 and don't want to dress older than I am, but don't want to attract negetive attention either Know what I'm saying???