It is possible that some people are actually envious of you (in a good way) verses thinking that you are "snooty"?
I would love to sail in a suite some day but I am really far off from that moment. I just graduated to the "balcony cabin" from several inside cabins.
I have to admit I am envious/jealous of people who are able to have suites but I would not hold it against them. For as far as I know they may have saved for 10 years for that cabin while I have been able to cruise once a year in less expensive cabins.
Maybe one day you will see me in a suite .. . . If anyone from RCCL or Princess sees this - feel free to upgrade me