I am going to be the Mother of the Groom in November. Well I jsut want to let u all know.... I am not the meddling kind. I ask my son how the plans are going. I send money to pay for some things. All i want to know now is what color dress i need to buy. long dress or short dress. I am just here to enjoy my sons wedding. i would never think of interferring in any of it. All they need from me is love.. It is there wedding after all. I hope that the brides mother is letting them do there own thing too. I am also cruising the next spring. so I am making the plans for that. That i can control. HAHAHA Happy cruising..