Lets get serious. These guys are away from home for anywhere from 4 to 10 months. Of course they get what they want whenever they can! As far as getting fired....In the years I've been in this business I've seen it happen hundreds of times. The reason we fire for it is that the girls who seem to "fall in love" and give into the crewmembers advances always seem to be under 20 and mommy & daddy aren't to happy about little Suzy losing her virginity to some seagoing lethario. They tend to sue for millions of dollars and the company doesnt need or want that exposure.