Most of the newly built ships for the US market have very large (larger than standard ) accessible cabins. Not true of retrofitted ships or those not in a primary US market. What ships have you been on? i can guarantee you i've been on a lot of the new ones and they most certainly have larger square footage accesible cabins.
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