We went on the Ecstasy in June. Our sons were 17, 16. I was really worried about what rules to set up, but after seeing all the programs that did not start until later, I allowed them to be wise. We saw them at dinner, and on shore days, but they did there own thing. They would come to our cabin, and check in, when we didn't ask for it. lol After about a day and a half, I felt more comfortable. We did find the 16year old in the hot tub with a young girl that didn't have enough on, but that is just a mom's oppinon.