Hi Perry, Im cruising in April out of Fort Lauderdale on Carnivals Legend see my post titled cruise mate wanted-windycitykitty. By the way I have some gay friends and I love them to death they are the most fun guys in the world, as a straight female being accepted in their world is wonderful, cause when a gay man gives you a compliment you know it's for real. I went to Vegas with my gay friend Bobby and he spotted all the hot men we had a blast. You sound like my kind of person, if my cruse interests you let me know. If not best of luck.