I'm not looking for someone to sleep with. There are less expensive ways to accomplish that goal if that was what I was looking for. I would like to cruise with someone who can carry on an interesting conversation at mealtimes and if we decided to do other things together, e.g. shop, tour, sun, etc., all the better but not required. I don't smoke and don't drink much. I also don't own a tux (but have lots of suits) so my style isn't very formal. In hot weather, my usual attitude is, " if I can't wear shorts, I don't want to go there". Obviously, that doesn't work well on a ship, so I do dress appropriately for dinner.