Hi, Cindi ...
Fashion Police reporting in !!!
Sounds like your choices are absolutely beautiful. Are we the same size?
I'd go with strappy black peau de soie sandals in a heel height that's comfortable for you so you don't need two pairs and they will serve you well in the future (and, maybe, at the rehearsal dinner?)
The pashamina will be great.
I always throw in the "LBD" (Little Black Dress) which, almost always, makes an appearance even though it's not in my initial planning. It's a fall-back position. We should always be able to go shopping in our own closets (large grin here).
All best wishes on your upcoming marriage and a wonderful honeymoon!
pamda -- CM First-Time Cruisers Editor