Some of the post I have read give the sence that people hate people. They are always on the defensive and waiting for an enpending battle. No respect for each other and the hell with you. So why do people want to travel with three thousand others? Some times you have to look the other way at things, but not at children throwing food, drunk teens and flashing tarts. The cruise industry and created something special for us and to see people turn a wonderful vacation into hell is rather sad. People should not have to stop eating at their table in the dinning room because of unruly kids throwing food. Many of my fellow cruisers have the correct attitude. It's better to walk away than fight over something like seats and ruin a good mood. No one needs to see the same person(s) again on board and recieve dirty looks or some not very choice words.