I probably shouldn't say anything on this subject since I don't have a weight problem, but I would like to point out something. Our brains tend to play tricks on us and when we look in the mirror, we don't always see ourselves the way others do. We see an illusion of what we want to see. Sometimes the truth is just too painful or requires too much effort to change. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder whether real or fantasy. And that, my friends, is why we feel overweight folks sometimes dress inappropriately, but then almost everyone dresses inappropriately at one time or another, regardless of their weight.