OK. Since you are on the receiving end, you are the person to answer my question. Even with auto tipping, we feel badly not giving our steward, waiter, and asst. waiter an additional envelope at the end of the cruise. It just seems rude. Unless, of course, service has been indifferent or unsatisfactory. So, if we provide these additional tips, do they go into the pool also? We are then paying a far greater tip than the fair recommended amount. If we don't, do we seem unappreciative? How do we let our steward, waiter, asst. waiter, etc. know that their particular service was deeply appreciated? Help!