I too am looking for a cruisemate. No expectations other than a relaxing cruise before tax season eats me alive (I am a CPA). January would be a little too late for me, as I am chained to my desk by then. I was looking at the Legend out of Tampa for the first or second week of December. Not really to choosy about the ports; I have done 17 ports myself and have been to most of the Caribbean. Just looking forward to a nice ship and some sun. Doesn't matter to me if I ever get off the ship! Think you could have a lot of laughs with a 48 year-old Jersey Girl with a USF education!